Clothing swap haul, just $20 for all! You can walk away with all of this and more at an upcoming Trendy Trade Clothing Swap Event! Join us! (Click image below to watch video and see our clothing swap haul!)
If you are on a budget or simply get a rush from finding great deals, then you will want to check out an upcoming Trendy Trade clothing swap event near you! Today, I am going to show you everything you can walk away with at Trendy Trade. At most events, swapping is somewhere around $20 and you can walk out with bags and bags of new favorite finds. So here’s a few that we found at the last Trendy Trade just so you can see what to expect when you check out an event!
If you have never been to a Trendy Trade Clothing Swap Event before want to learn more about how it work, we recommend checking out our About Us video to learn more!
At each clothing swap event we ask that you bring at least a minimum of 5 items, but you can bring as many as you want 10, 20, 50 or 100! You can walk out with an equal number of new-to-you items. So if you are ready or event just thinking about it, search for an event in your area and get your ticket today!
How to get ready fast and still look gorgeous! In this video I’ll share my top time-saving technique for dressing in no time flat each morning, saving yourself the time and frustration that normally comes with scrambling through your closet each morning. Plus, I also have a few more trendy trade Clothing Swap Event finds to share with you. Combined, they have a value at just under $200 and could be yours for a fraction of that price at an upcoming trendy trade Clothing Swap Event! (Click image below to play video.)
If you have a super busy week ahead of you and half your morning routine consists of deciding what to wear, or changing in and out of outfits until half your closet is torn apart, then you’ll want to read on! I will be sharing my secrets for how to get ready fast, dress in no time flat and still look gorgeous!
Life is busy now and we are constantly taking on more, adding more to our plates, trying to please more people all the while promising ourselves that we’ll continue to chase that ever elusive “balance” that we all seek in our lives. When we get busier one of the first things to go is how we take care of ourselves and taking good care of ourselves. So, I want to encourage you with some tips below. I also want to let you know that it is ok to give yourself permission to spend a little time making sure you are ready to head into your day and these tips will help you with that as well.
If you have watched my video on What Is Closet Shopping? then you’ll already have a head start on how to get ready fast, but if you haven’t, no big deal, you can pick it up from here and run with it.
Believe me, I would love nothing more than to slick my hair back and throw on a pair of yoga pants every day (and a lot of days I do!) But for those days when life requires a little bit more from us, here are a few tips:
How To Get Ready Fast | Tip #1: Think about your week ahead
The first thing you will want to do is think about your week ahead. Are you going to be in an office? Running errands? Taking care of the kids? If you wear a uniform to work, what is life before and after work like? Just take a few short minutes to think about what the week ahead will hold, so that you can best plan outfits that will go with the activities ahead that week.
How To Get Ready Fast | Tip #2: Set an area for staging
Next, set an area for staging. If you have a large wall in your bedroom like a hallway near the closet or even in your closet itself, you could use that for your staging area. If you don’t have a large wall, then the front of your closet is fine, just hang the items on the clothing bar or rod that you already have hanging. Of course, you have to first clear the space in your closet to be able to do that, so if you haven’t already you may want to head over to my video on How To Clean Out Your Closet after reading this.
In your staging area, you are going to want to have hooks on the wall (if you are using a wall) or ways to attach or group together hangers and different items if you are using the rod in your closet as your staging area. If you look on Pinterest, you’ll see lots of different ideas on how to do this — one of them being pop tabs to attach hangers.
How To Get Ready Fast | Tip #3: Select your outfits for the week
So, after you’ve thought about your week ahead and chosen an area for staging, then you are going to want to start selecting your outfits for the week. And set them in order; Mon, Tues, Wed, and so on. Begin with the main item that will be your wardrobe basic and then work around that. So, you’ll want to select the item that you will wear on Monday and put it on the first hook. Then, repeat for each day.
After you have the main piece up, start adding the complimentary wardrobe items and accessories around it. This would be everything, from leggings, jackets and scarves to belts, necklaces, rings and even undergarments. I know this seems excessive, but what it is going to help you do is make sure that you have everything you need as you head into your week and prevent you from having to get halfway dressed and then undressed and starting all over again just because the right undergarment isn’t cleaned or you can’t find the right color leggings. Again, it is going to save you so much time in your week.
How To Get Ready Fast | Tip #4: Have a few backups
So what happens if you get to Thursday and say the outfit you had picked out doesn’t go with how you’re feeling that day? When you are staging, you will also want to have a few backups. I would have two main ones: a nicer outfit and a more casual outfit. This is because even though we might do our best to plan based on what we know will happen that week, but things always come up last minute and it’s really those last minute plans that can make us really have to scramble. So having a dressier backup as well as a casual backup can help take some more of the stress out of your week.
If you get through your week and didn’t need the backups, great! You either have a head start on staging your wardrobe for the next week or you have backups ready all the time.
I know this all seems crazy and like it will take a huge chunk of time to do, but think about this — how much time do you waste each morning trying to put everything together? Now, that time is sectioned off differently in your week as prep time rather than getting ready time. The other huge benefit to this is that it will save you from scrambling through your closet each morning trying to hunt down those leggings or that scarf, or your missing bracelet, and then having to start all over again because you can’t find the final item to complete the outfit you’ve already chosen. So again, I know it seems like it is going to be time consuming to do this, but actually it will save you time and a lot of frustration getting ready in the morning as you take on your week.
This can get a little addicting, so you may become overly ambitious and get carried away and start on a 2nd or 3rd week. If you try any of the tips from this blog or have any questions, be sure to write that in the comments right below. I’d love to hear it!
Keep your closet clean once and for all by putting it through these three tests shown in today’s video: The Hanger Test, The Hamper Test or The Hanging Test. (Click the image below to watch the video.)
I’ve shared some closet cleaning tips and tricks in other videos recently, so now that you have spent a ton of time cleaning out your closet, how do you finally keep it clean once and for all?!
Clothes, shoes, purses and accessories have their way of creeping into our closets, whether through impulse buys, receiving gifts or therapy shopping – and our well-intentioned closet cleaning just went down the tubes and we jam pack more and more into our wardrobe.
So how do you keep your closet clean once you have taken the time to go through it all? There are lots of different suggestions out there that you can follow, today, I want to share the tips that I use to keep my closet under control.
Keep Your Closet Clean – The Hanger Test
Go into your closet and turn all the hangers backwards. Mark a date on your calendar where you want to go back into your closet and check the hangers. This could be a few weeks to a few months out or even a year. In the meantime, anytime you wear something, put it back on the hanger and hang the hanger in your closet as you normally would. On the date you have picked, go back into your closet and remove all the items that are left on the backwards hangers. Those are the items that you haven’t used in the period of time you set for yourself and can go ahead and clean out of your closet.
Keep Your Closet Clean – The Hamper Test
The hamper test is one of the best ways that I have found to monitor what I am using and what I am not. If you typically do laundry once per week, go 2-3 weeks (or even 4 if you can stand it) without doing laundry. In that period of time, anything that you wear goes into the hamper once you are done with it. At the end of your 2 weeks, 3 weeks or 4 weeks, see what you have left hanging in your closet. These are the items that you most likely rarely (if ever use) and are probably safe to get rid of.
Keep Your Closet Clean – The Hanging Test
My last test is the hanging test. How well can you see the items that you have hanging in your closet? If your answer is “Not very well,” then most likely you are failing the hanging test. Items that are out of sight, out of mind are less likely to get used. So the more crowded your closet is, the less you are likely using the items in it. For the hanging test, make sure that everything is actually hanging in your closet, versus being packed in so tightly that they are pushed up against each other. If your items, aren’t hanging, then it’s time to clean out your closet. See our closet cleaning video for more tips.
So give one of these a try! Whether it’s the hanger test, the hamper test or the hanging test, one of these or even all three will help keep your closet happy and help you to keep your closet cleaned and organized once and for all!
Closet cleaning tips for both the wallet and eco-conscious alike! When you are cleaning out your closet, you actually have more options than just bagging everything up and dropping it off at the local thrift chain on the corner. This video explains those options, plus I will show you three more Trendy Trade Clothing Swap Event finds! (Click image below to play video.)
When you are cleaning out your closet, you actually have more options than just bagging everything up and dropping it off at the local thrift chain on the corner. You can turn items you no longer use into items you will love, at Trendy Trade Clothing Swap Events. Today we will cover closet cleaning tips that help you make the most of what you already have and get the most for the money you have already spent. These tips will also help you not to keep something in your closet that doesn’t need to stay there, simply because you don’t know what else to do with it!
According to the Council for Textile Recycling’s website, the average American throws away 70 pounds of clothing and textiles per year. With Trendy Trade, we give you another option other than keeping, donating or throwing away — that is swapping!
Closet Cleaning Tips: Ask Yourself These 3 Questions
Next time you are getting ready to clean out your closet, go into the project with these questions in mind:
Will I use this? If so, keep it.
Is this still in great shape but I won’t use it? If so, swap it.
Is this item worn out? If so, recycle it.
If items are in your closet getting regular use, keep them in your closet! You know which ones these are because they are either on you or in your hamper right now waiting to be washed!
Closet Cleaning Tips: Swap or Recycle Instead!
For other items that are in your closet that are in great shape, but are too big or too small or maybe you bought it on clearance and can’t return it – these are great items to bring to a Trendy Trade and swap for new-to-you items that you will love.
If an item is outdated or totally and completely worn out, look for a textile recycling facility in your area, or if there isn’t one, check around to the local thrift stores to find one that recycles or reuses fabrics that come in.
Make it your goal to no longer throw anything away. Second to that, make it your goal to turn what you no longer use into something that you will! You can do that at an upcoming Trendy Trade event. Visit our Facebook page or subscribe to our newsletter for upcoming event details.
Trendy Trade is all about repurposing and taking something that someone has no more use for and rehoming it and giving it a new life. When you are cleaning out your closet, keep today’s tips in mind and it will help you make the most of what you already have!
How to clean out your closet quickly and easily! If the thought of cleaning out your closet brings on overwhelming feelings of guilt for buying too much or anxiety of not knowing where to begin, then this video is for you. In this video, I’ll share three quick and easy steps to get you started on cleaning out your closet. The good news is we have a few trendy trade Clothing Swap Events right around the corner for you to get rid of things you no longer use and trade them for things you will! (Click the image below to play video.)
It sounds like such a daunting task — cleaning out your closet — but with just a few quick and easy tips, I hope to help you breakdown this task so it is a little less overwhelming, rewarding actually and helps you make the most of what you already have.
Go through each of the three steps, one at a time, that I’ll be sharing with you here and when you’re done, you’ll have everything ready to go for the next trendy trade Clothing Swap Event that you attend. Plus, you’ll find space in your closet for all your new favorite finds you are sure to bring home with you from the next clothing swap!
How To Clean Out Your Closet | Step 1: Purge
This doesn’t take long and, in fact, should be done quickly. Start at one end of your closet and work your way across (left to right) and then top to bottom, looking for items that are completely worn out and not usable. If beyond repair, these items should go directly into a pile you set aside for recycling. If you do a Google search, you can try to find a location near you that takes textiles for recycling or find a company that accepts the fabric for reuse.
How To Clean Out Your Closet | Step 2: Filter
After you’ve purged, then you’ll want to go back through your closet paying a little more attention to what you are getting rid of. Follow the same pattern and work the same way as before (left to right and then top to bottom) and filter out items that are still in good condition, but no longer fit. This is where painful realism comes into play. If it is too big or too small, the item should go directly into your swapping pile. If an item has sentimental value, store it, but free up the space in your closet.
How To Clean Out Your Closet | Step 3: Match
With the work you’ve completed so far, the items left in your closet should be usable items that fit you well. Double check what you’ve done by “closet shopping” and putting together outfits for yourself in advance of needing to wear them. This will also help you take inventory of what items you need to get to complete an outfit or look. Then, be on the lookout for those items at the next trendy trade Clothing Swap Event.
My hope is that these few quick and easy closet cleaning tips will help you make the most of what you already have and then also give you a head start on filtering through your closet so you have a bag ready to go when you attend your next trendy trade Clothing Swap Event.
What is closet shopping? Before you buy another thing at the store, mall or online, watch this video! I’ll explain the basics and benefits of shopping your own closet, rediscovering your wardrobe and refreshing your look, without buying a thing. These tips and tricks will also help you as you get your items ready for swapping at the next trendy trade. (Click the image below to play video.)
We have all had that feeling or that day where we open up our closets and think, “I have nothing to wear!” Our closets are overstuffed and bursting at the seams with options, yet we stand there and stare, with a blank look on our face, feeling a little lost about what all those options are. If that has been you at some point too, read on as I help you make the most of what you already have by teaching you about what is closet shopping and how to do it.
What is closet shopping?
Closet shopping is hitting your closet before you hit the mall and rediscovering things to wear or discovering new ways to wear things you already have. If you closet shop instead of store shop, or closet shop before store shopping, you’ll find that you don’t really need to buy what you thought you did. It will also help you to buy less. By taking inventory of what you already have, you’ll see maybe it’s just a piece or two you need to add to your wardrobe, not really five new outfits.
There are many benefits to closet shopping, here are just a few:
Save money – by making the most of what you already have
Save time – by pre-arranging outfits, which we will talk more about in a minute, you will have several ready-to-go options as you head into your week, saving you time each morning
Save space – once you determine what is actually usable in your closet and what isn’t, you can get rid of the items that aren’t working for you anymore – by maybe bringing them to trendy trade – and free up some space in your closet
It’s fun! Closet shopping is a perfect opportunity for some quality time with your daughter, mom, sister or friend. If you don’t feel confident enough in your styling abilities, call up a friend you trust enough to come give their opinion and make an evening of it.
What is closet shopping? A couple more things to know
Think about when you were in school and your mom made you pick out your clothes the night before. It’s kind of like that, only the grown-up version.
Also, taking just a little bit of time to shop your own closet occasionally can take that overwhelming feeling away that you get either when you walk into your closet because it is stuffed full or when you walk into your closet each day as you are trying to pick out what to wear.
If you are planning on coming to the next trendy trade Clothing Swap Event, you will want to make closet shopping a priority between now and then because it will allow you to get rid of those items that are truly no longer any use to you, clean them out of your closet and bring them to the next trendy trade. Plus, once you have your new outfits planned from your closet after closet shopping, it will allow you to see what items you do need to be on the search for to complete your wardrobe and then those are the items you can hunt down at the next trendy trade Clothing Swap Event.
Make it your goal to assign everything in your wardrobe to an outfit. The misfits at the end are the items you should get rid of. They are just taking up space, crowding your life and collecting dust. Bring them to the next trendy trade and trade them for items you will actually use or if trendy trade isn’t in your area yet, donate them to local women in need.
What is closet shopping? The basics
Next, now that we have covered what is closet shopping and the benefits, let’s talk about how to closet shop and break it down to the basics.
When you are closet shopping, you are going to consider every item of clothing, plus shoes, purses, hats, scarves (other accessories) and your jewelry.
The very first thing I do is set sentimental items aside. I’m not someone that is attached to very many items, so this works for me. If you are someone that is sentimental about everything you have, you may have to take a longer look at this. But basically, these are the items that although you may not wear them often, if at all, you would never let go of (family heirlooms, baby shoes, special gifts, wedding dress.) Keep sentimental items. These do not get included in your closet shopping process.
Next, start with putting together your most frequently worn outfits. These are the quick and easy outfits to put together. You know them well because you are washing them every week or two and get lots of use out of them.
Lastly, get rid of anything that doesn’t fit. I know this is hard to hear, but if it is not in active use (the exception being sentimental items) you don’t need it. In this day and age — and especially with trendy trade – if it is something that you end up needing later, there are always cheap places to buy it or something similar will end up coming back around like it at trendy trade. In the meantime, you don’t need it cluttering up your closet, crowding up your life and collecting dust. Pass it on to someone you know will use it or needs it now.
When you are closet shopping and throughout this whole process, find a place to put everything as you work your way through your closet. You can either hang each outfit in your closet, or lay each outfit on your bed. Be sure to include all of the accessories with it – shoes, purse, earrings, necklace, everything that you put on to pull the outfit together. Don’t leave anything out.
What is closet shopping? A step-by-step how to
Now that you have set sentimental items aside, pulled out your quick and easy outfits and then gotten rid of anything that doesn’t fit, what you have left is more or less all of the pieces of the puzzle that you are going to start putting together.
Item-by-item go through your closet and start putting outfits together.
Look for different combinations (One pair of jeans goes with 10 different tops. Lay out the pair of jeans and then surround it with the 10 tops, plus the shoes, purses and accessories to go with it.)
Keep working your way through this process, along with the help of your friend or family member that has so graciously agreed to do this with you. Just keep going until you’ve made it through most everything in your closet.
Filter the misfits = Keep the basics – Trade the randoms
At the end, you are going to have a few misfits. This could be a little black dress, that maybe you have assigned the shoes, purse and jewelry to other outfits, but you know what you have that will go with it, so keep the little black dress because that is a good basic item to have in your wardrobe.
If you have any other random items leftover, try to find a “home” for them by assigning them to an outfit. If there is no possible way you can assign it to anything because you have absolutely nothing to go with it, then you have a choice to make. Do you want to accumulate more by either shopping or trading all the necessary pieces to turn that into an outfit? Or do you want to swap or donate it?
Closet shopping is the perfect place to start when cleaning out your closet for a trendy trade Clothing Swap Event. It is going to help you make the most of what you already have, get some mileage out of your closet and then help you know what to be on the look out for at the next clothing swap you attend.
Don’t forget to click the video above to learn more on what is closet shopping and how to do it, plus see more trendy trade Clothing Swap Event finds!
Learn how to host a clothing swap of your own with these quick and easy tips. I’ll share a few tips on organizing events that we have learned the past 5 years with trendy trade. Plus, I’ll share three more clothing swap finds so you know what you can expect to see at upcoming events! (Click image below to play video.)
We’ve been hosting trendy trade Clothing Swap Events for over 5 years and have learned a lot in that time about what works and what doesn’t. So, today I’ll be sharing some information with you that will help if you decide you want to learn how to host a clothing swap of your own.
When we put on a trendy trade Clothing Swap Event, one of our main goals is to get a group of ladies together and connect everyone and see what happens. Many times really wonderful things happen when wonderful ladies get together, so that is always a thrill to see. On top of that, we get to clean out our closets, free up some space, and go home with great new finds. If all that isn’t enough, everything left goes to a local organization that helps single moms in need. It’s a way to help other women in your community at the same time. That’s why we say “do some good while having fun.”
Those are all of the reasons that we love trendy trade, but the truth is that anyone can host a clothing swap event anywhere they want to, anytime, so if that is something you are thinking of doing, here are a few tips:
Set some ground rules
Keep the swap simple
Find someone to benefit
Invite friends at least 2 weeks in advance
If you are planning to invite your friends, send out invitations at least 2 weeks in advance. If it is just friends, family or friends of friends, you can host the clothing swap in your house. Designate a room or area in your house where you will put everything. Have places for trying on and plenty of full-length mirrors available for everyone to use. (Make sure to clear out your home décor from the room or anything that you wouldn’t want to accidentally get swapped!) Giving everyone at least 2 weeks notice on the invite gives your friends time to prepare and clean out their closets.
Set some ground rules
Next, you’ll want to set clear expectations for your guests so everyone knows what to bring and what to expect. Some of the things we recommend are: types of items to bring, level of cleanliness, timeline for the evening, and swapping rules for fairness. Creating a few ground rules will help set the tone for the swap and help everyone know what to expect.
Keep the swap simple
You can use the things you already have in your house to hang and display the clothing. Ask friends if they have anything you can borrow to help display items for the swap. Tables, chairs and coats racks all make excellent places to lay or hang clothing for display. Put out a few snacks and refreshments, just keep it simple.
Most importantly have fun! Ladies love a reason to get together and this is the perfect excuse to get out of the house, have some fun and help other women at the same time.
Find someone to benefit
Lastly, find someone to benefit. There are going to be items left at the end and ask the ladies there if they mind if anything leftover is donated to a local charity. A lot of thrift stores and charities are used to getting things people don’t want and a lot of times that means things that even the stores and charities don’t want — so it’s nice to help a place that needs it by giving them some of the really nice things that are generated at the clothing swap that you host with you and your friends.
I hope you have found these tips on learning how to host a clothing swap of your own helpful. Don’t forget to click the video above to learn more on how to host a clothing swap, plus see more trendy trade Clothing Swap Event finds!
Shop by fit, not size. In this video, I’ll explain why by showing one trendy trade Clothing Swap find styled three different ways. I’ll also help answer the question, “What sizes do you have at trendy trade?” Plus, I have three more clothing swap finds to share with you as examples of what you will see at upcoming events. (Click image below to play video.)
One of the most frequently asked questions we get about trendy trade is, “What sizes do you have?” Typically we get a really nice range of sizes so there usually always ends up being something for everyone. We will always encourage you to shop by fit, not by size at trendy trade Clothing Swap Events for several reasons:
Every brand has different sizing
Washing & drying changes the size
Items can be worn many different ways
So, to show you the advantages of shopping by fit, not by size, in the video above I’ll show you one trendy trade Clothing Swap find styled three different ways. The main piece that I’ll be styling for you is from Forever 21.
As we all know, you can find items there on both ends of the quality spectrum. I have some pieces from there that wore out very quickly and got holes and I have other pieces from there that have lasted years and I love wearing regularly. This one is polyester, rayon and spandex. It’s tan colored with a black floral lace pattern that looks like an overlay but actually isn’t. French darts are sewn in from the waist up and then from the waist down there is a little bit of a flare to the skirt. It has short sleeves and zips up the back.
The reason I chose this piece is that while this was likely originally intended as a dress, the most common way I wear it is as a top. This is also the reason I encourage you to shop by fit, and not by size when you come to a trendy trade Clothing Swap Event. Someone a little smaller, or with a different body shape, would probably be able to get away with wearing this as a dress. For me, it’s too short to wear as a dress, but makes a great top. That’s why we’ll always encourage you to shop by fit and not by size because the same item can be styled different for different people depending on your body type.
So the three ways I’ll style this for you today are:
Casual day out
Down to business
Bundled up for fall.
Casual day out
For casual day out, I have this styled with a pair of skinny jeans, a beautiful vintage style necklace, big pearl earrings and neutral heels and matching purse. By the way, the purse and shoes were also trendy trade Clothing Swap Event finds! Styled this way, the dress makes a beautiful top that is easy to throw on and go for a casual outing or if you just want to look good while running errands.
Down to business
For down to business, I have this styled as a dress, with a black jacket, black heels, statement earrings and bracelets. Depending on your office environment, you could also pair it with a pencil skirt or black dress pants.
Bundled up for fall
For bundled up for fall, I have this styled with a black cardigan, black scarf, black leggings and boots. The layers will keep you fashionably warm while you are on a fall outing and this is a super cute way to extend the use of your summer dresses into the fall.
So whether it is for a casual day out, getting down to business or bundling up for fall, this one dress can be worn those three ways and help you make the most of what you already have in your wardrobe or might find at an upcoming trendy trade Clothing Swap Event.
Reclaim your style with these 3 easy tips! Plus, I’ll show you three more trendy trade Clothing Swap Event finds. One is an item with an original retail value of over $170 and will be available at a future event so stay tuned! Remember, you are the one that has to navigate through your day and through your life so wear what you feel comfortable and confident in! (Click image below to play video.)
Recently, I started these videos as a way to give you some insight into the trendy trade Clothing Swap Event culture and what it’s all about and to show you some of the clothing and accessories that come through the events so you can see what to expect. Once you are comfortable with seeing why we do what we do and how we do it, then maybe you will decide to join us at an upcoming clothing swap event. If you want to learn a little more about how a trendy trade Clothing Swap Event works, after reading this, hop on over to the video “Three Clothing Swap Finds, Power of Color and About trendy trade.”
I have had a lot of big life changes over the last couple years and it has completely taken a toll on my wardrobe. My closet has become this “patchwork quilt” of fabric of sorts filled with all these different styles. Now, I have just been experimenting with trying to figure out what my style is currently. Just when I think I know what direction I am going, the seasons change or new trends are announced or another life change happens and I have to figure it all out all over again.
The other day, I heard a former fashion designer being interviewed and one of the things he said was that he didn’t believe in trends, he believed that you need to find out who you are and what suits you and dress according to that. Once I heard that, all the pressure was off and it got it me thinking about what I liked, what I felt comfortable in and what I felt good in. So that’s my new direction and I want to share these three tips with you if you are struggling to find your style:
Find your favorite colors on you
Find the outfit you feel confident in and copy that
Feel free to experiment
Reclaim Your Style – Tip 1: Find your favorite colors on YOU
How many of us are guilty of looking in our closet and seeing a chunk of white, a chunk of gray and a chunk of black? So that’s great because those colors go with everything, and that was me for a long time too. But I never felt like it matched my personality or really went with who I was. My sister sent me a necklace one day and it was a soft, bright turquoise color and when I tried it on, I loved it. It was nothing I would ever buy for myself, but once I had it, I started to experiment with adding other colors to my wardrobe.
trendy trade Clothing Swap Events are really a great place to experiment, because you have dozens of ladies with all different styles, all different tastes bringing everything together and you can literally go through everything there and try it all on if you want or take it home with you and then you can also begin to find new favorite colors that you like on you.
Reclaim Your Style – Tip 2: Find the outfit in your closet you feel confident in and copy that
For a very long time for me, especially when I was in the fashion jewelry business for several years and then moved into the corporate world, my go-to outfit was a sheath dress and black jacket. I loved it, I felt great in it. It always gave me a polished look and I always got compliments. So I had a couple black jackets and lots of sheath dresses and I never had to think or worry about what I was going to wear. That was just “it” for me for that point in time in my life — my confidence outfit. If you go to your closet, you can easily point out the one or two outfits in there that every time you put them on you feel like you can take on the world that day. That is your confidence outfit and that is what you should copy.
Reclaim Your Style – Tip 3: Feel free to experiment
In this day and age, there is no right or wrong when it comes to fashion (although I have seen some people wearing some things that I wish I hadn’t!) But seriously, NOW anything goes. Again, this is another really great reason to join us at a trendy trade Clothing Swap Event, because we are literally putting hundreds of items in front of you at each event that are the sum of dozens and dozens of ladies closets and it’s your chance to try on things you normally wouldn’t, get feedback from people you can trust and if you take it home and end up loving it, great, keep it! If not, bring it back and swap it for something at the next clothing swap event. But really, trying on new things you typically wouldn’t is one of the best ways to find something new that you might end up loving!
Keep in mind that there is no such thing as the fashion police. You are the one that has to navigate through your life and through your day, so I hope these tips help take some fashion pressure off of you and help you be fully comfortable with who you are as you work to reclaim your style.